"My friends and I have started partying a lot recently and since then they've been acting differently with me because they think they're popular. What should I do?"
I don't like the word popular, especially when it's used in this context. In schools, people are 'popular' because they hang around with a lot of people, go to parties and think they're cool. They think everybody loves them when in fact, everybody hates them (Had to put some Mean Girls in there). Popular people don't really have many close friends even though they know a large amount of people. Personally, I don't care about being popular. I'd rather hang out with the 'weird' people because they're a lot nicer and I know I will have true friends.
I've been in this situation before. Some of my old friends have become 'popular' but I don't really mind. I knew they always wanted to be in that group of people so it didn't come as a shock to me. Also, I still had a few other friends to talk to.
I think if you're really good friends with these people you should try and keep the friendship you had.
- Talk to them. I say this a lot to people, but they may not even realise what they're doing and how it's making you feel.
- If it carries on start to distance yourself from them. If they aren't acting like the friends you knew before, it is likely they will move on. You don't want to be left behind.
- Try and find some new friends. If the friendship you have now ends, it's always best to know there's other people there.
If you can keep the friendship you have now, that's great. If not, just remember there are other people you can be friends with. People grow apart and move on, that's just a part of life.
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So, my first real blog post! I really hope you liked it.
I decided to post early so you could all see what my posts will be like (I was also bored).
I decided to post early so you could all see what my posts will be like (I was also bored).
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Jasmine x
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Look if you don't like what they are doing or the way they are treating you tell them. Plus it won't hurt to be their haul with your friends. Remember there is someone out there who loves you and maybe those friends aren't right for you. P.s I saw ur tweet so I thought I make you feel better🌸😘💕
ReplyDeleteHigh school isn't forever. No one will remember the "popular kids" when it's all over. I graduated 2 years ago and trust me, everyone forgets the crowds.
ReplyDeleteIf they don't treat you well, don't hang with them, they're not worth it! I had the same problem in high school, and I lost a lot of friends because of it. But you live and you learn right?
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DeleteGood advice, I agree totally with what you have said! At our school if you're not 'popular' you aren't worth it, but idc cos I have true friends(:
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